When
some 200 schoolgirls in Chibok were abducted last year, one of the
fears that accompanied the outrage their abduction generated is the
likelihood of their being subjected to sexual violence. Most likely,
they were targeted on account of their gender in the first place and
with them being held in an unknown location, they would be at the mercy
of their captors. That is partly why Nigerians – minus the people who
were in denial about the probability of such an abduction – and the rest
of the world urged for immediate rescue of those girls from Boko Haram.
It has been a year since that abduction
happened but they are still not back, no thanks to the foot-dragging
that marked the official response. Other victims have been abducted
since then and we have also learnt that before Chibok, abduction had
been near routine. Time has passed since Chibok and it is almost too
much to hope that those girls have not been abused.
In the past few weeks, the Nigerian Army
–thankfully – has been freeing abductees from the clutches of Boko Haram
in the Sambisa Forest. It is bittersweet news – the country has finally
triumphed but wait a minute, the women are returning home differently
from how they left. Out of the recent batches of returnees, some 214,
according to the UNFPA, were “visibly pregnant.” We have always known
they were not abducted because Boko Haram needed cooks and home keepers.
Governor
Kashim Shettima of Borno State in whose territory most of those
abductions have taken place adds a dimension to it: That Boko Haram is
not primarily driven by primal sexual urges nor is their impregnating of
their captives a perk of their nefarious activities. What Boko Haram is
engaged in is actually “phallo-terrorism” – the kind of terrorism that
seeks to expand itself beyond the acquisition of spatial territory by
acquiring bodies of women as well. Through the agency of the phallus,
this terrorism builds an army to elongate its existence. Shettima says
Boko Haram’s impregnating the women is a conscious effort that is
buttressed by a maniacal fundamentalism. That what we are dealing with
is a calculated attempt by a murderous sect such as Boko Haram to be
fruitful and multiply.
To achieve this, they acquire vulnerable
women who would be used as tools to propagate their radical and
nihilistic ideology. Shettima adds, “I was told they even pray before
mating, offering supplications for God to make the products of what they
are about doing (sic) become children that will inherit their ideology.
After getting their captives pregnant, they keep them to allow the
pregnancy mature to an extent of say four or more months to make
abortion difficult or impossible for the women due to life threats in
carrying out abortions at that level.”
There you have it. Against better
judgment, one pictures terrorists holding weapons in both hands. On one
hand, their phalluses and on the other hand, AK47s. One weapon to end
multiple lives, the other to create multiple beginnings of life that
will ultimately be ended. This is not a desire for fatherhood but using
nature against its own purposes: To breed a human army that will destroy
a world they are helping to expand.
It is messy. It is complicated. It is not
for nothing that rape was labelled as a weapon of war, a war crime. The
women of Bosnia, Rwanda, Bangladesh, Congo DR, and Japan who went
through genocidal rape are instances of “phallo-terrorism” in modern
history. More shuddering cases of opportunistic rape go as far back as
biblical times where misogyny was part of the culture and allowed men to
treat women as second class citizens.
When the women become pregnant, enemy
lines are forcibly redrawn. This murk in analysis of moral issues is one
of those times one wishes nature were not so brutally neutral. If
nature were discerning, it would censor its own processes. Women who
were raped by their own fathers, for instance, ought not to get
pregnant. We will never have to tangle with certain difficult questions.
If nature were a little more discriminating of seed sown in love and
consent and the ones planted as a permanent stamp of triumphalism on
conquered subjects, it would be selective of what it germinates. Boko
Haram’s “phallo-terrorism” gives the phrase “unwanted child” a fresh
nuance that whatever your morals and beliefs, you would think at least
twice on the pro-life question. What does one do with Boko Haram’s
child?
Before people begin the familiar
peroration about the sanctity of life and the favourite Nigerian
pro-lifer argument –God has a plan for every child – we should consider
the emotional state of the women involved who have passed through such
difficult circumstances. What do you do with what is of you, came from
you but is still not yours? Who can blame a woman who barely feels any
emotion towards a child conceived in such aberrant circumstances? Those
who think that women are natural nurturers and a mother’s love is an
essence that happens regardless of circumstances only need to chew on
this to see the fallacy in their assumption. Tell the woman carrying the
child of her violator she ought to love her child and she will ask if
you are on cocaine high. Whatever choices the women in this circumstance
make must be respected and protected. It behoves the rest of the
society to support in any way possible.
We have seen Hollywood movies where mass
armies of fighters are produced by Computer Generated Images to fight
the ultimate war between Good and Evil. But here is real life where
humans are spawned by the evil speed of their nameless and faceless
fathers who terrorised their mothers through a physical and symbolic
weaponisation of the phallus. Unlike the CGI, for instance, actual human
bodies never go away that easily. They materialise and memorialise
pain, violation, degradation and dehumanisation; a legacy of lost
personhood. When these children are born however, they become persons to
whom our claims to humanity must be extended. We cannot wish away a
child –whatever the circumstances of birth – without first darkening our
souls.
The terrorism of the phallus is an
unsolicited evil gift that reproduces, ironically, a child who is the
very epitome of innocence. The image of a newborn evokes sinlessness, a
newness pure and innocent, merely unfortunate to be born into a world of
sin. In the absence of the father to pay for his own sins, the child
becomes the sin eater, the stigmatised one whose existence is akin to a
long arduous walk to Golgotha saddled with the cross of the father’s
sins. I pondered about the whole affair and I just cannot find answers
that reconcile the odds sufficiently. What I am left with are
contradictions. Sometimes, I wonder if God/nature set us up for
confusion to have a laugh at our expense.
No comments:
Post a Comment